I'm going to attempt to be a nicer poster.

Discussion in 'The Red Room' started by Dinner, Apr 27, 2013.

  1. Dinner

    Dinner 2012 & 2014 Master Prognosticator

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    I recently got a comment from Jan saying that I often make excellent points so why do I act like an asshole so much? I think he is right and I am going to attempt to turn over a new leaf. From hence forth I am going to try to be less snarky and sarcastic, to be more respectful in my disagreements with other posters, and to attempt to not return fire with fire. In short, I'm going to try to be less of an asshole.

    That's the goal any way. We'll see if I can keep it.
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  2. 14thDoctor

    14thDoctor Oi

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    Eat shit and die, cockfag. :brood:
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  3. Zombie

    Zombie dead and loving it

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    Gul makes excellent points.
    Ancalagon makes excellent points.
    Chad makes excellent points.

    I'm not going to name any others since I don't feel like it but needless to say on the lefty side of things you're dead last in making excellent points.

    Jan must be on drugs considering the vast majority of your "excellent" points turn out to be bullshit.

    You're just a West Coast version of Liet.
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  4. Dinner

    Dinner 2012 & 2014 Master Prognosticator

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    That's not very nice nor, I believe, is it accurate.
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  5. Bickendan

    Bickendan Custom Title Administrator Faceless Mook Writer

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    Welp, if this thread wasn't Red Room before, it is now.
  6. Dinner

    Dinner 2012 & 2014 Master Prognosticator

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    Nothing and after last night's bender I've decided to take a month off from drinking.
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  7. John Castle

    John Castle Banned Writer

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    I regard the content of the OP with extreme skepticism bordering on suspicion. :brood:
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  8. $corp

    $corp Dirty Old Chinaman

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    Jan is right. You make excellent points. But they are excellent talking points of the typical lefty retard.

    They don't call you Tardin' for nothing. :lol:
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  9. Tamar Garish

    Tamar Garish Wanna Snuggle? Deceased Member

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    Sincere people just do what they want to do.

    People seeking attention make big pronouncements and special threads over something that didn't need announcing to begin with. :jayzus:
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  10. Dinner

    Dinner 2012 & 2014 Master Prognosticator

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    Maybe so but I thought I would announce my intentions to change.
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  11. gul

    gul Revolting Beer Drinker Administrator Formerly Important

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    Maybe you can do it. I received a similar comment from shootER about 7 years ago, and I realized he was right. Now days, I tend to only focus my asshole posts on the community punching bags, and even they probably don't deserve it as much as we all do it to them.

    Good luck!
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  12. jack243

    jack243 jackman

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    You gotta' be you. If some don't like it, too bad. Just because someone doesn't like what your saying shouldn't make you feel that you should stop saying it. It means that THEY should stop listening to it.
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  13. Diacanu

    Diacanu Comicmike. Writer

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    Then I'll be worse to compensate.
    :D

    *Slashes $corp's tires*

    *Kneecaps John Castle with a pipewrench*

    *Shoves a cat turd in Zombie's mouth*

    *Farts on Tamar's dinner*
  14. John Castle

    John Castle Banned Writer

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    *shits in Dickynoo's Froot Loops* Yeah, yeah, it's on now!
  15. Azure

    Azure I could kick your ass

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    Nah. You were never a cockbag to begin with.

    Big difference.
  16. MikeH92467

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    Sometimes. However, in Buddhism there is a teaching called the "Triple Secret" of thought, word, deed. Formulating a goal and announcing the goal can be a powerful force for changing one's course. Will it work here? Beats me, but I see no reason why this particular poster shouldn't be taken at his word instead of summarily dismissed. Actions will tell soon enough if there's any real difference.
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  17. Will Power

    Will Power If you only knew the irony of my name.

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    Fwiw, this here thread reminds me that TOS' "The Enemy Within" is on MeTV tonight at 9PM (East Coast Time) on MeTV.
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    Rimjob Bob Classy Fellow

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    It pays to be nice. No one will care if you win the argument if you don't win the hearts and minds. That goes for life in general.
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  19. Ebeneezer Goode

    Ebeneezer Goode Gobshite

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    True, but sometimes you've just got put on the Captain Cunt suit and have at it!
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  20. John Castle

    John Castle Banned Writer

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    Well, no, gul has been something of a cockbag in the past -- but, not unjustifiably so, as evidenced by the fact that in the absence of a catalyst to cockbaggery, his cockbaggery has significantly ebbed.
  21. John Castle

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    Hell with that. I'd rather be right than liked. Being liked is a transitory thing at best, and hollow satisfaction. Being right gets things done.
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  22. Diacanu

    Diacanu Comicmike. Writer

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    OH!!! Oh ho ho!!!

    Says Mister "weeve the poowe Cwistians awooone! :sob:".

    :rotfl:
  23. John Castle

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    And you notice whose favor I'm not currying with that. And you might also have noticed that when they actually do get out of line -- as opposed to simply doing things small-minded antitheist bigots just don't like, for example engaging in religious expression -- I call them on their shit as firmly as I call the antitheists on theirs.
  24. 14thDoctor

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    CS, in all seriousness, it is a good idea for you to be nicer. But not just that, really.


    As a poster whose opinions are (generally) less popular than your opponents, it's on you to try harder to win people over. That means being nicer, doing more research before starting threads or making claims, and making an effort to concede when your opponents are correct about particular things. (No one likes the guy that'll never admit he's wrong.)


    That's my two cents, anyway.
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  25. Amaris

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    Good luck, CS. Along the same lines as what 14Doctor is saying, be nice because you want to be nice. Be polite because it's what you want. Don't just do it to aid in your persuading others to your point of view, really give other people respect. It goes a long way in getting respect in return.
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  26. Ebeneezer Goode

    Ebeneezer Goode Gobshite

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    :bailey: Some people like me! :P
  27. shootER

    shootER Insubordinate...and churlish Administrator

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    I have no recollection of that, though I am usually right about the things I post here. :ramen:
  28. John Castle

    John Castle Banned Writer

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    As with all [-]highly improbable[/-] farcical claims, I must demand

    :evidence: :bailey:
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  29. Amaris

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    Hey, I like ecky! Ecky is a cool poster, with many redeeming qualities!


    ...oh, that? That's just a, uh, wad of cash that I received from a friend. To buy porn.

    I'll be leaving now.
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  30. NeonMosfet

    NeonMosfet Probably a Dual

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    Or you can do what i do. Word it in such a way that they all scratch their heads. No one will call you on it, because they are unsure as to what you actually meant.
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