Not everyone takes message boards thje way they should be taken. There are reasons I do not play around with most fandom boards. I also do not hang out on trans or GLBT boards. There is too much drama and high school bullshit to mix with what I enjoy or things that effect me to a deep level. I learned to stop going to those places. Anime boards are filled with Incels using words like trap and other slurs, whining about gay characters, shitting on certain genres, acting like edgelords, and even people recruiting for Nazi groups and stormfront. There are a number of people out there who watch anime and like it because there are few brown characters and they think it makes the show white. They do not see the characters as asian because they watch dubs. There are reasons I have learned to never talk DBZ at a con. If you do get into areas where the woke people are they are drama filled and use cancelling to rid themselves of people on the outs with the main group. I will be the first to admit transgendered people have fucking issues with their shit. Last thing I need is some little twat telling me how they think I need to be to be considered trans. I do nopt even want to talk to a fucking shrink to approve me as trans. Why the fuck am I going to look for the approval of some people on the internet who I do not even know they are not some fundamentalist christian messing with my head. Then you have the whole mix up of drag queen culture in the whole thing, which IMO is the worst parts of being female with the drama, catfighting, and backstabbing. On top of that every time I meet some fucking transexual they always got to do that body shaming, you are doing it wrong bullshit. Thanks for the taste of how women put each other down, I have had enough. Really, I would rather deal with TLS because I am not trying to get support from him, or find a safe space to relax in. I have tried to explain some of this to amaris so yes I have told her. Unfortunately this is the world. Even in extremely moderated places people act like people. I was always a bit surprised certain people are here, and she was one of them. I did not want it to turn out the way it did, but you could see it coming.