anyone know if theres some way i can control a mac from windows, similar to using remote desktop? i want to stick a mac on my network, but don't want to fart about with extra monitors or switches, i just want to be able to click on something from my PC and access it, including file transfers.
Looks like there are some versions of VNC server for the Mac: http://www.realvnc.com/pipermail/vnc-list/2003-February/037644.html http://stevek.com/VNC/OSXVnc2.html Don't know how well they work. The PC variants are pretty good if you are on the same network, but rather inferior to RDP over a slower connection.
i've used SSH to send commands to a server before, but wasn't aware it could do GUI control - any links on how that works?
Ecky, look for Xming. http://freedesktop.org/wiki/Xming That's what you need to run X11 tunneling over SSH for windows. I use it all the time to run KATE on my machine off of the university servers. GUI's can be sorta unresponsive sometimes, especially when you first open something. After all the shit loads in its not too terrible though.
Is there a version of Timbuktu for Mac? Yes, yes there is: http://www.netopia.com/software/products/tb2/mac/techspecs.html
Actually the funny thing is there's a VNC server built-in to OS X. If you turn on "Apple Remote Desktop" in System Preferences>Sharing, it will activate the VNC server and open port 5190 on your firewall. VNC is only for screen sharing and control though, not for file sharing, although you could always mount your shared drive or folder from within VNC, otherwise, there's no file-level copy and paste, although you can copy and paste text.
I don't think I understand the question, but I'll try to answer what you may be asking. If you turn on "Apple Remote Desktop" in System Preferences>Sharing, any VNC client can connect to the VNC server that is activated when you turn it on. Windows, AFAIK, doesn't have a VNC client built in. Windows Remote Desktop (is this what you were thinking of?) only works to connect to Windows machines. It uses it's own protocol, which is not based on VNC. You need a separate client, perhaps the client half of WinVNC. PC anywhere and similar products use VNC as well, or at least they used to.