I never read my facebook messages

I decided just today to check them and I found this little Gem from over a year ago. Hell, I thought I was on her friends list. I changed both me and my wife's names to protect the innocent. Sounds like she has not improved with the years. She slipped a bag with all my stuff in it into my car when I was at work and then called me to tell me she had left a letter for me in a book. You can guess what was in the letter. She gave me the boot right before I went into the air force. I think I was better off for it by a long shot. I can't remember if she is on number 3 or 4 but she just keeps picking evil men because the problem could not be her

So...what's the problem?

He was sober when he read the message?

Sounds like a relationship without trust. In other words, a doomed relationship.

EP better tap that when the divorce happens.

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Thanks for sharing....??

Not gonna happen, but yeah that was my thought too. Its been like 30 years since we went together and she is afraid being friends on FB will ruin their marriage? It was one of those deals where FB brought her name up and I remembered her and clicked friend and never thought much about it. Who the fuck would want to be her friend?? I should have replied "so your still a bitch, just checking"

He's started threads on this exact same "Old flame on Facebook wants to bang me" topic before.

Jesus, can I slit my wrists yet?

Don't let us stop you.

So, you clicked the friend request to be a nosy little snit.

Someone sure dodged a bullet with that relationship ending,for damn sure.

No shit. Most of my exes are also Facebook friends. In fact, they're friends, period. I'm not getting involved with anyone so distrustful or insecure that she has a problem with that.

Awesome. Do you have any cool stories/jokes that you've been forwarded lately?

Oh... kay? Would you like me to pour you a congratu-latte? Maybe warm you up a plate of fucks I don't give?

That's why I stay off that Facebook shit as much as possible. Someone has some dirt on you and next thing you know you're in the hot seat. Lots of incriminating info any any of us and all of us...at least in my world. Not worth the risk really.

Yeah, I don't put much on it these days. It's mostly historical stuff. I just talk shit on it now or just use it to talk to people who are not local or cheap.

Because no one posts on it?

Yea but that sword cuts both ways really, personally I wouldn't friend exes out of respect for my wife. While she could probably handle it I respect her more than that.

Yep. After a string of incidents that made the last command look bad, the higher ups were looking to throw any and everyone under the bus. A guy in my division got in trouble for taking a Keurig coffee K-cup off the mess decks (which for whatever reason, his wife took a photo of, and posted on FB--the wonr eyes saw it and this guy was like the Dayton3 of Supply department as it was), and they were trying to send him to Article 15 for larceny over it. Seeing how this same command waited six months to send someone up for DUI and over a year for a sexual harassment thing ( and the guy was told about the mast two hours ahead of time! ), I wouldn't be surprised if they tried to make an issue of it down the road.

This is why no one at the new command is FB friends with me.

I'm sure it was me who benefited. Someone who treats you like crap and still won't be your friend after 30 years is not worthy of being my friend.

Wow, how is not being a friend to someone being
respectful to your wife?

That you have to ask this says much.

No, I'd like to know this too.

I'm friends with the majority of my exes. There was a reason we were friends in the first place -- hence why we still are -- and there's also generally a reason we're no longer dating. Hence no threat.

You sent out the friend request, and then come online to laugh at how she's been remarried a shit ton of times and that she's crazy.

Yep. That dumb bitch clearly doesn't deserve your friendship after that.

No,it was on a list of possible people you may know that just popped up and I recognized the name and clicked on it. Lots of people do that for people they went to school with. I didn't ask for that life story. That shit was all in her head.

How would she know that?

From her point of view you made a friend request and most people assume that means someone wants to be friends.

She didn't do anything wrong here. You are just being a massive jerk about it for some reason.

Whats wrong with being friends on facebook? All she had to do was not accept the request.

Maybe she thought it was nicer to not let you think that there was some animosity towards you in refusing the request.