if he were....would you hate him any less? On a personal note I enjoy being a male. I don't love my penis but it has served me well over the years, and has earned my respect. That said there is more to being a male than just sex organs, and considering the overall "male" gender attributes I have that down to a science.
Probably. Apparently, Lyndon Johnson had a big ol' horse cock, and he liked to show it to as many people as possible to intimidate them. I would imagine Trump does the same thing, except what he's packing is on the small end of average, and he tries to low-grade gaslight people into thinking it's "yuge."
He's at least curious, anyway. It would explain the overcompensating. Terrified of being outed. Probably has nightmares about people finding out and forcibly cutting his dick off.
His conscious mind is struggling to reconcile the woman he truly is with the toxic heteronormative masculinity that was beaten into him from a young age.