Fun fact: Dork used to be slang for penis, and Gary Larson's editor rejected a Far Side caption back in the 80's or 90's because the original strip used 'dork'
Seems to me that they have the capacity to decide whether or not they're in danger and therefore a choice to sting. It's okay. I know it's difficult for you to conceive of women with agency in anything they do, let alone self defence.
They explain it in I think the second sequel, but then it gets retconned a couple of times in later movies, so who even knows anymore.
LOL. Best explanation I’ve seen yet for the Fermi Paradox. We are ‘those people’ of the intergalactic neighborhood. LOL!