Generation Self-Entitlement: Daughter sues parents for tuition money

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  1. Liet

    Liet Dr. of Horribleness, Ph.D.

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    I've got two words for you: promissory estoppel. If you promise your kid that you'll pay for the college of her choice, and then, for example, she applies only to colleges costing $40,000+/yr on the basis of that promise, she may well be legally entitled to have you pay for college. You can't just go around promising people things and then reneging after your promises have been substantially relied on.

    Holding people to their promises after those promises have been relied on at some cost to the promisee isn't self-entitlement; it's basic contract law. If you think that contract law doesn't apply as between parents and children then you're really, really wrong. None of which is to say that this case is necessarily a good one or any kind of a winner for the daughter; rather, it's just an unremarkable contract case that will have its outcome be readily determined based on the underlying facts and is interesting only because it's unusual for a young daughter to sue her parents for violating a contract.
  2. garamet

    garamet "The whole world is watching."

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    Was there a clause in her contract that illicit eating before dinner would render said contract null and void? No? Then you're in trouble, Mister! ;)
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  3. Dayton Kitchens

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    If you're not a hypocrite then you can't be a good parent.

    A good parent wants things better for their kids. Which means doing things the parents did not do or avoiding the things they did do that were harmful.

    In regards to contracts. Juevniles cannot make contracts can they? Thus, can an adult be held to an oral contract made with a juevenile? I doubt it. And this female in question was undoubtedly under 18 when some of those "promises" were made.
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  5. Dayton Kitchens

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    Much as I loathe the f word, in this case your words are considerably better...
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  6. The Original Faceman

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    Except in any condition she is in a position to afford no college anyway. Thus had she not relied on their promise she would be in the same position anyway - in other words no loss.

    She is free to go to community college and pay $15 per unit now.
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  7. garamet

    garamet "The whole world is watching."

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    :wtf:
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  8. We Are Borg

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    Also, the presiding judge shot down the self-entitled twat and said she wasn't entitled to tuition or living costs.

    So Liet can take his promissory estoppel and stick it up his stopped-up promise-hole.
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  9. Dayton Kitchens

    Dayton Kitchens Banned

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    This incident is living proof that we need the voting age raised back to 21.
  10. garamet

    garamet "The whole world is watching."

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    What I did was suggest that the article didn't tell the whole story. Or are you about to make a case for Truth in Journalism?

    Yes, your trolls are. You're spreading yourself too thin.
  11. Dayton Kitchens

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    Garamet (as do others of her ilk) define "trolling" as someone who dares to post that does not agree with them.
  12. Ten Lubak

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    Yeah but then you started musing things like "I doubt the private school was her idea." Total speculation.

    I know, I know, this is where you come back with some weird and lame spin like you usually do when someone proves you wrong because you think you're god's gift to internet posters so I'm just going to cut you off at the pass
    and say eat a dick, which is what would have been my response.
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    It puts the lotion on it's body, or it gets the hose again.
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  14. Amaris

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    Sorry, spoiled little girl, but life doesn't work out how we want it. If you get a job, you can probably afford a basic place to live, and have food to eat. Save up money over time, and then attend a good community college. From there, it's all up to you how well you succeed.
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    She does not appear to be fat, but the dude she's living with is clearly a hermaphroditic stalking creepazoid.
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    It's short for "You Only Live Once." It was common a few years ago, but is now pretty much exclusively used ironically, except by Grade A douchebags.

    Basically a new generation's equivalent of "Hey, y'all, watch THIS!"
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    She said her dad had an inappropriate relationship with her. I'll be her daddy and show her inappropriate and wildly inappropriate so she has a proper standard to go by.

    upload_2014-3-5_21-4-0.png upload_2014-3-5_21-5-9.png

    Her friend.... not so much.

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    What if it was a verbal contract?
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    A guy I work with says that. He rides a sport bike, and is moderately douchey. :lol:
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  23. T'Bonz

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    Spoiled princess. Parents partly to blame as they gave her too much and didn't even make her do chores.

    My daughter came home from college one summer and tried to pull the "I'm an adult and I'm not doing chores" bit and thought she'd use our place as a motel. I'm pretty liberal as a parent (they never had curfews) but I told her to get on the bus, head back to school, and find somewhere else to live for the summer because I wasn't putting up with that bullshit.

    She did.

    Today? We get along great. It was just an unpleasant teenage phase that lasted on and off for a year. My second one had one rebellious phase too, but thank God the baby didn't.

    My eldest is almost 30 now, with a child of her own, and pretty much said that this girl was a spoiled brat and that she had had her own bad times to me as a teen, but nothing like that.

    You live long enough, the kids come around to your side of the fence, lol.
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  24. gul

    gul Revolting Beer Drinker Administrator Formerly Important

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    Hah hah! Now the brat is trying social media.

    http://nypost.com/2014/03/07/teen-suing-parents-baby-boomers-are-the-spoiled-ones/

    She's not entirely wrong, but this is very much an instance of pot and kettle. Generation X is clearly sandwiched between some serious loser generations.
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  25. We Are Borg

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    Yeah, that will work out well. :rotfl:

    Other than garamet and a few other dingbats, is anybody seriously going to defend this self-entitled twat?

    Also at your link, look at this classic pedobear moment:

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    It's statistically probable, sure. But the number of fuck ups with decent parents and no underlying mental illness probably can fit inside a Mini Cooper with room to spare. :borg:
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    You sound more dumberer than Dayton with crap. :wtf: College is not a right or an entitlement, and there are plenty of ways to get an education paid for. I hear the Army is hiring. :bergman:
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  29. enlisted person

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    Daddy should have given her a bit of the belt and the rubber hose when she was younger. I don't know why she is complaining about money for college. We can all see she is sitting on a gold mine.
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