Is kissing considered cheating?

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  1. enlisted person

    enlisted person Black Swan

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    Just a simple question.
  2. Ancalagon

    Ancalagon Scalawag Administrator Formerly Important

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    French kissing for more than a microsecond and anything beyond is cheating.
  3. Sean the Puritan

    Sean the Puritan Endut! Hoch Hech!

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    If your significant other considers it cheating, it's cheating.
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  4. The Original Faceman

    The Original Faceman Lasagna Artist

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    Yes, kissing a man is cheating on your wife. :bergman:
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  5. Beck

    Beck Monarchist, Far-Right Nationalist

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    HUH?!?!?!?

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  6. Sokar

    Sokar Yippiekiyay, motherfucker. Deceased Member

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    Only if your balls touch.
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  7. CaptainChewbacca

    CaptainChewbacca Lord of Rodly Might

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    If you don't want your wife or girlfriend to find out, its cheating.
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  8. Ancalagon

    Ancalagon Scalawag Administrator Formerly Important

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    Which one? Both have different standards with what I can get away with.
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  9. Elwood

    Elwood I know what I'm about, son.

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    Cheating is doing anything with another person that you wouldn't want your spouse or significant other to see, hear, read, or know about.
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  10. Sean the Puritan

    Sean the Puritan Endut! Hoch Hech!

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    ... or guess, even if wrong.
  11. Elwood

    Elwood I know what I'm about, son.

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    My girl and I are ever so slowly feeling a new attitude out. We're going slow, because, frankly, neither of us has ever tried this before, but we've both had really bad relationships in the past.

    We've taken cheating out of the equation. If she wants to fuck someone else, go 'fer it. She just has to ask me first. Same for me. I know exactly how much she loves me and she knows exactly how much I love her, and because of this, the sex wouldn't be about love, but something physical.

    Of course, she's also given me the green light and she's trying to find a second woman for a romp in the hay. :banana:
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  12. Mrs. Albert

    Mrs. Albert demented estrogen monster

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    completely depends on the circumstances, IMHO. If you're kissing someone else and hiding it from her, prolly not so good. :nono: If she's there and watching you and touching herself, then I'd say you're in the clear. :D
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  13. oldfella1962

    oldfella1962 the only real finish line

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    Boring.....that's like the store allowing you to shoplift!
  14. Jeff Cooper Disciple

    Jeff Cooper Disciple You've gotta be shittin' me.

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    Kissing, like a peck on the cheek between old friends, or kissing like something you wouldn't want your wife to see?
  15. oldfella1962

    oldfella1962 the only real finish line

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    Anything below the waist is probably crossing the line I suppose.
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  16. Diacanu

    Diacanu Comicmike. Writer

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    You've been talking to Storm too long.
    :diacanu:
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  17. KamelReds

    KamelReds Bite the Curb!

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    That's the same situation my girl and I are in right now. Except, it's more her getting to play with other girls and me watching, and threesomes.

    It's been glorious.
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  18. Elwood

    Elwood I know what I'm about, son.

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    Storm has a similar...outlook. But, it's another friend that I've been talking to that has opened my eyes. The only problem is that he does it in a way that pisses me off. :mad:

    We'll start talking about it and he'll immediately start apologizing. He doesn't want to offend me because he thinks I'm completely opposed to it. I'm not, so stop it if you're reading this. :mad:
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    Ancalagon Scalawag Administrator Formerly Important

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    He always stops the story 10 seconds too early doesn't he?


    fucking blue balls. :garamet:



    :P
  20. evenflow

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    I totally understand. But he and his girl are visiting in January, so hopefully everything will be worked out by then. :jayzus:
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  21. Ancalagon

    Ancalagon Scalawag Administrator Formerly Important

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    :huh: :unsure:
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  22. Sherlock Holmes

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    Somehow I think this thread has devolved from where ep wanted it to go...
  23. Tamar Garish

    Tamar Garish Wanna Snuggle? Deceased Member

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    I suspect I know this culprit. :chris:

    And Elwood, really, our torrid affair won't be as fun if she knows about it...geeze.
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  24. Elwood

    Elwood I know what I'm about, son.

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    I gotta work this thing to get both of you in the same room. naked. with jello. :ramen:
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  25. Tamar Garish

    Tamar Garish Wanna Snuggle? Deceased Member

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    Red Jello, please. :D
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  26. Mrs. Albert

    Mrs. Albert demented estrogen monster

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    watching is FUN! :lol:
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  27. Elwood

    Elwood I know what I'm about, son.

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    I'll give you the red if you let me use Sugar Free. Gotta be health minded, now... :soholy:
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  28. KamelReds

    KamelReds Bite the Curb!

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    I know, tell me about it.
  29. enlisted person

    enlisted person Black Swan

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    You said you wouldn't tell :P Lawyers are supposed to keep things in confidence:P .
  30. Tamar Garish

    Tamar Garish Wanna Snuggle? Deceased Member

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    Only if you lick off every, single, bit. :smooch:
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