Cheating is doing anything with another person that you wouldn't want your spouse or significant other to see, hear, read, or know about.
My girl and I are ever so slowly feeling a new attitude out. We're going slow, because, frankly, neither of us has ever tried this before, but we've both had really bad relationships in the past. We've taken cheating out of the equation. If she wants to fuck someone else, go 'fer it. She just has to ask me first. Same for me. I know exactly how much she loves me and she knows exactly how much I love her, and because of this, the sex wouldn't be about love, but something physical. Of course, she's also given me the green light and she's trying to find a second woman for a romp in the hay.
completely depends on the circumstances, IMHO. If you're kissing someone else and hiding it from her, prolly not so good. If she's there and watching you and touching herself, then I'd say you're in the clear.
Kissing, like a peck on the cheek between old friends, or kissing like something you wouldn't want your wife to see?
That's the same situation my girl and I are in right now. Except, it's more her getting to play with other girls and me watching, and threesomes. It's been glorious.
Storm has a similar...outlook. But, it's another friend that I've been talking to that has opened my eyes. The only problem is that he does it in a way that pisses me off. We'll start talking about it and he'll immediately start apologizing. He doesn't want to offend me because he thinks I'm completely opposed to it. I'm not, so stop it if you're reading this.
I totally understand. But he and his girl are visiting in January, so hopefully everything will be worked out by then.
I suspect I know this culprit. And Elwood, really, our torrid affair won't be as fun if she knows about it...geeze.