I can pull the bullshit caring act @TheLonelySquire does better than him, watch. Hey TLS, I know I have fucked with you before, but the bond between parents and their children is powerful and grand. It is something that drives the love in our hearts and enriches every parents life in ways I do not even know. It is obvious that it is there, because I do love my parents quite a lot. Do not let religion erode any love you have for your child away. Do not let it interfere with moments of pride and joy at their achievements and loves. That is the great part of being a parent from what I can see. All parents have an image of their child's future that is destroyed as their child becomes who they are, but the best parents let that happen because they know that the child's best joys and best life is achieving their goals and loves. You should not let a man made verse in a book interfere with that love. That is the divine. That is the reason and motivation. If any religion makes you not appreciate their joy and success at something that enhances their lives and makes them better people, like the love of a same sex mate or the accomplishment of presenting as the gender they know they are, then there has been a mistake made by man in presenting god's words. Because that empathy and love for your child growing and living a good decent life loving another in a consensual relationship is one of the greatest joys a parent should have. But in reality, if you miss it because you are a hateful twit that just uses the word of the all loving christ as a weapon to judge others, then fucking good. You don't deserve that joy and I am glad you fucking miss it. I feel sorry for your kids and I hope they find more love in the world than they do in you.
I said they're supporting her. Can they also not harbor disappointment? Or that's not allowed on the psycho left?
And also watch that motherfucker. Because there is a small step between person who loves and cares for young children and kiddie diddler. I swear I have been creeped the fuck out by a couple of my niece's female teachers after meeting them. There is a small line between pinching a kids cheeks and hugging them because they fill you with excitement and that excitement being sexual arousal in the operations of the brain IMO. My thought is that natural joy and adoration we feel for our cute children and their adorable actions probably leaks into the sexual processing areas of the brain in some people causing problems.
Again, you miss me entirely. If I were on a ship, and it needed a crew, I would not be captain at all. I would pilot a ship in something like a driver position for a cargo ship or bus, but if you really want to know where I would be on a spaceship, it would be on a pirate type ship, and I would be running one of the entertainment sections. I would be a sexy female non-ferengi version of quark. The only reason I would not be ferengi is because of their views on women. I would be ready to fight if boarded, but I would probably be a lot more loyal to the captain considering it wouldn't be a military ship. Maybe I would pilot a defensive ship or mech. I would only captain in extreme emergency, but I can rally and command reliably while separated from the captain. You really are not paying much attention. I am an infiltrator, not a commander.
Course, the real answer from them is "I want the babies to look like ME!! ME-babies are BETTER babies!! ". But they dare not speak that shit aloud. But no, I wouldn't trust TLS in a daycare. Not necessarily because of pedo stuff, but because of the cruel evil thoughts in his think-meat.
The question isn't "are they allowed". The question is "why"? I mean, sure you first get the news and it's .. aww, we won't have blood related grandchildren (no idea why that would be an issue, but ..ok, sure), but then, you get over it, you accept it and you move on. If they're carrying their disappointment for years, that's not a "not allowed by the psycho left" issue, that a "they're horrible human beings and don't deserve the gifts God gave them" issue
There was a great line in a book I just read... "A rule of thumb for if something is biological fact, or a biological myth, is biology enables, culture forbids".
You think TLS is a sadist? That would still be associating torture with sexual excitement causing compulsion to impermissable acts. I am just thinking standard power and dominance fantasies which is pretty much pedo fodder IMO. Yes, I have spent some time on pedo boards trying to understand their desires. I have hung out with a few and discussed their fantasies and ideas regarding why they appreciate children. I find it tends to be a sexual perversion of the typical mentor/parent/teacher power structure. This is why the love goes away when the child becomes an adult and is experienced. There is less power dynamic and things to show the child so the pedo loses interest. A lot of that joy a regular person gets from showing a child something that makes them happy is from what I understand processed in the sexual realms of the personality rather than the platonic areas. This gets into why a pedo enjoys hearing a child prattle on about lessons and teachers and their daily activities. Adults tend to tune that out and give a smile and nod to what they do not understand while the pedo gets involved in the activities because of the subtle emotions and discoveries that make the child express emotions which the pedo feeds upon. There is a special joy in being the first to show a child something. This is why I imagine taking a child's virginity is so powerful to a pedo.
I'm not a Catholic, I wholeheartedly disagree with a great number of views promoted by Catholicism, I think the various scandals and coverups of child abuse are horrible, and I think we'd be better off without organized religion on such a mass scale. That being said, I put those opinions aside when it comes to attending a wedding or funeral held in a Catholic church, especially for a family member or close friend. I also don't cut family members out of my life just because they are Catholic (or of any religious faith). It baffles and saddens me that you can't set aside your opinions for a few hours to go attend a family member's wedding just because she is a lesbian.
"Don't be an asshole" = welfare leech!! You're either committed hard to a troll character, or you're mentally ill.
1. I'm not Catholic either. 2. I'm not cutting anyone out of my life. 3. Attending a gay wedding is a tacit endorsement of it. That's not an example I want to set for my child.
Attending a gay wedding shows respect for your family and/ or your family member. I believe that’s more important than proving some sort of point. Presuming they are worthy of your respect. My cousin wouldn’t attend my sister’s wedding because the pastor was a woman and my sister is straight. My sister had done nothing to deserve that disrespect.
If you said to your niece's face things like you have to "subject" your daughter to seeing her at Christmas, or tell her you put marriage in quotes when you type it or you won't be attending her wedding because she's gay you are most certainly not making her happy, you're doing the exact opposite In fact just by saying these things show that you have no interest in her happiness at all - you're just mean and petty, to a member of your family no less It's pretty incredible you can't see how full of shit you are Christians, man
My bad. To clarify, I had to subject my daughter to seeing my niece's relationship at Christmas. Actually, my sister and I were struggling with how to address my niece's relationship on a Christmas gift basket. The solution was that we didn't address the nieces and nephews as couples, we simply wrote the names of the individual nieces and nephews. Is what it is.
I believe everyone, by virtue of being human, deserves to start from the presumption the they are worthy of respect. And that it is possible, through their own actions, for them to prove they are not. To get from that to YOU EXPECT TO JUST HAVE EVERYTHING HANDED TO YOU is a weirdly bleak, benighted point of view that I cannot comprehend.
I was just using that as an example. You may not realize it, but you are. That doesn't make any sense. I'm not tacitly endorsing Catholicism or Catholic weddings by attending a Catholic wedding. Plus I'm sure there are plenty of weddings people thought were a bad idea, but they attended them anyway. Attendance is not an endorsement of the institution or ceremony, it's to show love and support for a family member or friend.