Borgs was not a normal human being...and the thing he was dating at the time was even worse (she basically came onto every guy there, and did the same the second time I encountered here, so much so that I had to have a mate turn up to rescue me!). But, I think he meant well. I just think he had mental problems (probably something like mild autism) which caused pretty much total social ineptitude.
You all have an invite whenever you're in New York. I'd offer my couch, but I'm sleeping on it since the wife split with the bedroom set and the tempurpedic mattress!
I know, El Chup. Sorry for what you've been through. As you know, shit happens. It's not supposed to, that's what the vows stated, but it does anyway. I refuse to wallow in it, but it's still very fresh, and it does catch me off guard at times.
Sounds super cheesy, but the old cliché that time is a great healer really does apply. They'll always be a part of you, but life goes on. Plus, the remaining emotional attachment means that you can hump and dump the skanks in the interim without attachment worries.
And here's me letting you two know that I'm not going to use those admissions as troll ammo. Because while THIS!!! is obnoxious, it's just theatrics. I really do wish the both of you godspeed in the healing of those wounds. And please don't bleed on the furniture; G-d knows what kind of communicable diseases you gutter rats have bubbling along in your red, red vino.
One of the reasons I've avoided meeting Frontline -- I've heard everything is a let down after that. Well, that, and the fact that my main reason for ever being in Tampa died a few years ago.
I lived right down the road from (bad with names) that guy who died from cancer about two years ago. Had two kids I think. Man it's bugging me - can't remember his name. Anyway, I'm not much fun to hang out with in social situations because of my numerous psychological disorders and mild Aspergers.
Unless plans change, it's likely to be San Fran again and Vegas. Others from the region who want to meet up, feel free to drop me a line.