Ladies, a quick grooming question...

At what age do girls start shaving their nether regions?

bikini line: when it starts to come out of the bikini, and that depends on the girl.

Anything else up to the girl. I would think not until she was sexually active and in a mind to really "notice" the hair.

Funny note I had a friend who just had this conversation with her ten year old.

Apparently the girl just got hair and was wanting to know if she should shave it like her mommy. (mommy is completely shaved by the way ) My friend was just like, "not for a long time, do you need to shave in any way".

I finally convinced the wife to try it last fall after 17 years of campaigning, with the promise i wouldn't make an issue if she didn't like it....


she didn't ike it



Still, she did agree to a nice close trim and a smaller area so it's progress..






What? TMI?

When she's asleep, break out the can of Nair. If she questions why her pubes are falling out, blame it on the house being built on Superfund land.

So in essence you guys like making it with prepubescent girls?

Why the fuck do you want to know?

Guys don't like it hairless because it's reminiscent of prepubescent girls (at least, not in my case )...

We like it because it affords a more aesthetically pleasing view of that particular landscape.

Thankfully, I don't have excessive hair and Zel doesn't go for the hairless look so I don't need to shave.

Which is good because when you take blood thinners you don't want to put razors near your genitals really.

Generally speaking, one could leave off the entire part about the blood thinners and it'd still be correct!

Well, I have found lately that the close trim look actually maybe appeals to me more than completely bare....it's the "full natural" that i don't much care for.

That said, I've never had any trouble mistaking the wife for a child....children don't have breasts like hers...

No, I like being able to go down on a woman without getting a mouth full of hair.

I never liked the feeling of it being bare. And it's worse when the stubble shows up.

Different strokes for different folks, I guess.

Never was very hairy, (I guess I'm fortunate) and hubby loves the natural strawberry blond so I have it made. A little trim on the sides in the summer time when I want to wear a bikini does the trick. Stubble itches like hell. Why shave when he loves the feel of it after I put conditioner in it? He knows where my clit is, so he never gets a mouth full of hair. Luckily it doesn't grow on the inner labia. The little man in the boat hides from the silky strawberry blond hair. :lookatme:

Best thing for itching bumps and stuff - if you never knew this before - deoderant.

Not spray or rol on but the stick kind. That high priced stuff for razor bumps is the same thing as cheap deoderant.

Spray deodorant for your pits on your twat? Noooooo.....no, don't think so. That stings even thinking about it. The stick kind would smell, and not in that delicious nether region kind of way. Peach scented conditioner is a much more pleasant scent. It's a personal choice, but shaving nether regions is a monstrous pain in the ass. Too much trouble, especially when the carpet matches the curtains.

If you are clean and healthy, the natural aroma produced there isn't offensive anyway. At least, Zel seems to like it.

Besides, putting perfumes and deodorants down there is just begging for a very unpleasant yeast infection.

It's a delicate balance and disrupting it is a bad idea.

TMI all around in here...

I think this stance is really stupid- if I wanted to fuck 10 year olds, the thread would be "Ladies, a quick looming question... where do you keep your kiddies?"

Oh fuck off.

It's just another part of the body, some people like it shaved, others trimmed, others left to grow wild.

If a woman prefers her husbands face to be clean shaven before they kiss is that a sign of her secretly longing for him to be twelve years old?

It's psychological, Bailey. It's not the face doing the actual fucking. It's the aforementioned nether regions. Pubes equal sexual maturity. Hairless equals child. The bare look just looks so damn funny, and stubble hurts when you're having sex. Who has the time or money to run for a waxing every two weeks? A little trim will do you if there's excessive hairiness.

FYI, love my husband in a well trimmed beard.

Shaved, neatly trimmed, jungle requiring a machette and a team of porters...

Its all pussy! Someone pass me my bib and miner's helmet! In the words of Red 7, "I'm going in!" Whatever makes her comfortable is good enough for me.

Though, with complete candor, prefer shaved - I just like the tactile sensation that much better on my various boy parts and it fits some of my kink (and so very much *not* in a little girl way...I *like* touching, caressing, etc and too much hair detracts). However I also understand (from experience) that stubble down South is a pain in the ass (sometimes literally!) and can be so itchy as to detract from the lovin (or the McLovin - Superbad is going to be awesome!)

So, as in most things involving sex, there's no wrong answer. Do what makes you and him (and her and the other him...if that's your style) happy and enjoy yourself, always remembering to laugh with gusto when the mood takes you...

Which if I am not incorrect means it is in your mind?

Please show me a pre-pubescent male with a beard.

Again, in your mind.

See, they are all good reasons, there isn't any need for people to justify their own personal decisions such as this to others, but if you are going to try isn't it much better to offer rational discussion instead of calling people pedophiles?

Bailey, you missed the point. A psychological appreciation for pubes is just as valid as someone else liking smooth skin because it feels a certain way. It's my sexual experience. If I can't stand the thought of my husband with no pubes, then that's valid in my life and for us. He says he's not putting a razor next to his balls and he hates the "pedophile look" on me. His words. Says he changed his baby half sister's diapers too many times to ever want a woman shaved bare. That's what works for us. And I hate his look without a beard. I like men with facial hair. I like them hairy. I equate it with manliness. If someone else likes shaved that's their business, but the question was asked. A little trimming is your friend. Why risk nicking the family jewels?

And I reiterate, stubble hurts. Talk about a way to ruin sex. Ouch.

You're missing my point.

I'm not taking any stance here about what is best, because it does vary from person to person what they like and feel most comfortable with.

The problem has always been with Garamet deciding to virtually call people who do prefer shaved genitals as being pedophiles. I called her out on it and you defended her.

I prefer trimmed, because it's better than letting it grow wild (And get all up in my face), and also better than shaved (Which I think actually HURTS during both oral and regular sex).

Never been a fan of the shaved look, really. I just like for things to be neat and trimmed. That's why I spend so much time keeping my facial hair well-groomed.

MR, I think you're the one missing the point. You, Garamet, and now by proxy you husband don't seem to get (as Tamar does) "different stokes for different folks*. In other words, most of us would prefer that you keep your sexual hang ups to yourself rather than trying (and failing) to condem others for their own habits and joys about the subject.

Some people get all hung up on simple things like oral or anal, but I'll be damned before I'll agree that either is wrong or unhealthy which is exactly what your lot is alludng to...

I like my wimmen like my back yard - wild and untrimmed.

Doesn't Willbury have a teenage daughter. I figured she was curious and he was trying to find out.

And according to Flow a woman's genitalia looks different from a girl-child. And in thinking about it, I have to agree.

I don't find stubble to be a big deal. It doesn't really itch and doesn't seem to ever hurt flow if I've let it get a little long on the undercarriage. I shave just about every time I take a shower, it's not a big deal and only takes about a minute of my time.

Never had a problem with stubble on him either, and he doesn't shave everyday.