Should Conversion Therapy Be Banned Nation Wide?

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  1. Shirogayne

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    18 :borg:

    Why would any teenager today go through that in 2017 when every indicator suggests it doesn't work and people today are far more accepting of non-hetero people than they were even five years ago?

    Look, kid, you're wasting time entertaining this conversion therapy shit. There's plenty of Tumblr blogs about LGBT issues, including stuff for asexuals (or aces) and aromantics and those who just don't know.

    You've got your whole life ahead of you and what you identify with as a Teen may not be what you identify with five years from now. I've read about a man that came out as gay at 95 years old! :yes:

    Seriously, don't do this and don't let your folks push you into it, either.

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  2. Shirogayne

    Shirogayne Gay™ Formerly Important

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    Well, one of them, for sure.

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    Devil's advocate: How come you can transition to another sex under the age of consent? I assume we would have gotten here eventually.
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    It's not so simple a question.

    First, the age of consent for medical procedures is not 18 everywhere.
    Second, not one of these young people is MEDICALLY transitioning under the local age of consent without parental approval (from whence comes the legal consent)
    Third, the first stage of transition is social only, no medical involvement at all before puberty, the second stage - if the family can afford it - is completely reservable puberty delaying medication. Actual irreversible medical transition does not come until, in the vast majority of cases, 16 when cross-sex HRT can begin (in some cases, with certain doctors and patients who have been socially transitioned most of their life, that may begin as young as 14). In some states the age of medical consent is 16, if not lower.
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    Your parents do not force you to transition against your will. The child makes it known they identify and then the parent acts. There may only be a handful of parents who would abuse a child by forcing their transition against the child's will, and I am pretty sure the child would have multiple avenues to complain and get saved from that sort of abuse. It is a hold facts d lie that liberal parents are forcing transition on unwilling children.

    Oh, and I would beware of relating the devil with piss poor points. If he exists he is probably sick of his advocates being mostly morons and you do not want the Lord of all evil being pissed at you.
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  7. Nova

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    Notwithstanding the rest of your comment - the above is not a description of conversion therapy and is not the sort of counseling such a ban would affect.
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  8. Nova

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    and if you are lucky they'll eat a bullet and you won't be shamed to have a "freak" for a kid, amirite?
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    Yeah, there's no way those kids come out of that well-adjusted.
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    When do you leave for therapy, sport? :shrug:
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    That's a nice story, but you didn't finish the article. While the first part is about CA law banning it for minors, and quibbles about the grounds on which its justified but ultimately concludes it probably is anyway, the second half and the bigger point is that CA representatives in Congress are trying to ban it for adults nationwide, and how that's objectionable.
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    All of which is valuable information, but frankly, it doesn't convince me that the basic problem doesn't apply to both sex change and conversion torture. Yes, I agree that the former is a medically founded process and ethically and scientifically very different from the latter, but that is at heart a political stance. You shouldn't make that the basis for punishing people whose actions disagree with yours. I'm not sure what the solution is, but I think that it would be a good basic idea to have the same age limits apply to both decisions, and never let parents make them for their kids (explicitly -- it's bad enough that we can rarely help but be influenced by our parents' beliefs in any decisions we make at 16 or 18 years of age).
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    Sure, ban it. That said it will not happen. Trump doesn't care but the fundies in Congress do so it won't happen.
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    Ban it for kids and people who cannot consent and have others controlling them. As for adults they already have gay conversion therapy. It is called lying. Why are you going to out yourself to the flock by going to the one place only an ashamed gay person would go? You do what every other gay person who hates themselves does. You marry someone of the opposite gender and play pretend until you realise judgemental religious people are worthless sacks of shit and suck.

    If there are a couple of people who want to get spanked by a priest and told they are naughty gay men I think it may be the priest who has an issue of consent. Or not because God might allow it as long as you pretend it is straight therapy and not a gay S&M session.
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    Yes, ban it. Because it's not just torture, it's also quackery. :yes:
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    But for kids who are lesbians, it's A-OK! Amirite?
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    to be clear, when I said "yes" i was speaking specifically of minors (and others who cannot legally consent.For others, I'd treat it legally in the same manner as other sorts of treatments regarded by science as "quackary"
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    With this admittance that you support child abuse I hope you never have kids.
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    You are wrong.
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  22. Nova

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    lots of them do (using "eat a bullet" for any form of suicide attempt) - what should we make of a parent who has no regrets over forcing their kids into conversion torture and then the child kills themselves?

    Or short of that, runs away from home, or gets involved in other "immoral" high risk behavior as an escape mechanism...?
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    It used to be a lot easier to fight quackery.
    What happened to "the bunko division", of the cops?
    You see it in old cop shows and movies, but not anymore.
    You never hear of someone getting arrested for "bunko", on the news anymore.
    Acupuncture, homeopathy, herbal remedies, crystal healing, anti-vax, Christian science, all that shit should get cuffs slapped on.
    Especially once its killed someone.

    A bunch of fucking lobbyists must have put forth the "durrba derp liberty!! Profits! What are ya, a red!?!? :rant:", bullshit, and now you have to dog Kevin Trudeau for decades before you can get him behind bars.
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    I find the Aces disturbing. Are they not identifying with any sex grouping, or, are they simply not interested?
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    Asexuals are exactly that...they may be attracted to one sex of the other but generally aren't interested in moving into the bedroom very often, if at all. :shrug:

    Disturbing is too strong of an adjective imo.
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    That's why it's disturbing. They shouldn't be showing up on anyone's radar, and yet the religious voyeurs want to know why.