Is kissing considered cheating?

Discussion in 'The Red Room' started by enlisted person, Nov 27, 2007.

  1. enlisted person

    enlisted person Black Swan

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    What if it goes no farther than a deep liplock.
  2. Tex

    Tex Forge or die. Administrator Formerly Important

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    Anything you wouldn't want your S.O. seeing is probably cheating... maybe it's not cheating in your traditional sense, but it's a crime on the same level. It's basically a betrayal of trust. Yes this includes internet chatting and real life flirting. As long as it's something you would still do with your S.O. sitting there than I say it's fine, but once you cross that line you're wrong.

    I know everybody flirts a little, and that's no big deal, but there is definitely a gray area that people should be careful of.
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  3. enlisted person

    enlisted person Black Swan

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    Internet chatting? No, I disagree.
  4. Tex

    Tex Forge or die. Administrator Formerly Important

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    Internet chat can be a betrayal of trust, which is just as bad as cheating. Just go by my rule of thumb, if you wouldn't do it in front of your wife/gf, it is not ok to do.
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  5. Sokar

    Sokar Yippiekiyay, motherfucker. Deceased Member

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    :wtf:

    Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit.

    If anybody other than me pouts any of my ladies snooches, I'm going to go Rambo and kill every motherfucker in the vicinity.

    Nobody is talking me out of that stance.
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  6. Elwood

    Elwood I know what I'm about, son.

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    I used to be the same way. However, I'll never say that I'm right and you're wrong. Different strokes for different folks, is all. :shrug:
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  7. oldfella1962

    oldfella1962 the only real finish line

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    And go to prison? Sorry, no woman is worth that.
  8. Shirogayne

    Shirogayne Gay™ Formerly Important

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    Meant to say "moved up in the world."

    Still, :backhug:
  9. frontline

    frontline Hedonistic Glutton Staff Member Moderator

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    All I can say is welcome to the other side of the moon. :D

    I'll pay for the air fare so long as I can watch!
  10. Sokar

    Sokar Yippiekiyay, motherfucker. Deceased Member

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    Ok. But it's the details.

    If she takes a ride somewhere else, and someone drops a load in her, would you still be cool with that? Is there some sort of ground rule that whoever is banging her has to wrap? That's probably more trust than I can muster mister. Sure... she SAYS she won't... but......

    Is she allowed to polish the nob? I'm not sure I could dream up a better image to make me loose it more than thinking about my old lady gulping some other guy down.

    Just to be sure, I'm looking at this from the point of a SERIOUS relationship, not just 'seeeing someone'.

    Oh, and remember, threesomes should NEVER include 2 dudes.
  11. Nautica

    Nautica Probably a Dual

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    Nah...as long as the only touching the two dudes do is to form the Eiffel Tower on the girl, it's all good.... :calli: :finger:
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  12. Nautica

    Nautica Probably a Dual

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    Dude, the Eiffel Tower is just high-fiving each other while you're kneeling on opposite ends of the chick... :rolleyes:
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  13. Sokar

    Sokar Yippiekiyay, motherfucker. Deceased Member

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    You could wake up like this...

    [​IMG]

    THAT'S NOT TWO PILLOWS!
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  14. Phoenicianknight

    Phoenicianknight Chaotic Jester

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    If "Mr. Happy" makes an appearance, then it is cheating......
  15. Diacanu

    Diacanu Comicmike. Writer

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    Holy shit, I'm agreeing with Sokar!
    What do I do, do I rep him, or what?
    I'm so confused.
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  16. Sokar

    Sokar Yippiekiyay, motherfucker. Deceased Member

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    Just don't touch me in any inappropriate way.
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  17. BearTM

    BearTM Bustin' a move! Deceased Member

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    Not entirely true. It wasn't totally gay until Tex and Ash posted their pic of themselves doing one.
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  18. Tamar Garish

    Tamar Garish Wanna Snuggle? Deceased Member

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    What if your woman said..."okay...we'll do two girls if we also do two guys"

    Would you unbend from the no two guy rules to get two chicks?
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  19. Elwood

    Elwood I know what I'm about, son.

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    I never said no to two guys. I just said that they cannot touch in any way. :nyer:
  20. Tamar Garish

    Tamar Garish Wanna Snuggle? Deceased Member

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    But what if it makes her hot? And no one else would ever know?
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  21. Sherlock Holmes

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    What do you mean by it... Details Tam. ;)
  22. Ancalagon

    Ancalagon Scalawag Administrator Formerly Important

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    What exactly are you talking about here? An Y Tu Mamá También type situation?
  23. Tamar Garish

    Tamar Garish Wanna Snuggle? Deceased Member

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    I have no idea what that is. :unsure:

    My best friend happens to think two men together is hot..not my bag personally, but whatever floats her boat..

    Anyway...the idea is, would most men bite the bullet and do a few things they nomally wouldn't with another man in order to get that lesbian love fest they salivate for.

    If so, how far would you go? Discuss! :D
  24. Elwood

    Elwood I know what I'm about, son.

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    I'm not gonna go as far as Specialist Teabag up there ( :nyer: ), but if you want specific answers, you'll have to ask specific questions involving specific people. :bailey:
  25. Ancalagon

    Ancalagon Scalawag Administrator Formerly Important

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    You've never seen the movie? If you can handle subtitles, you should check it out!

    Why do you ask, when you know I can't tell. :diacanu:






    :lol:
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  26. Diacanu

    Diacanu Comicmike. Writer

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    Look, babe, y'know I love ya, but for the last time, I'm not gonna roto-rooter Zel in the bum for you. :no:
    I'm strictly for the ladies.
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  27. Shirogayne

    Shirogayne Gay™ Formerly Important

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    I'd like to meet this friend of yours. :yes:
  28. Dr. Drake Ramoray

    Dr. Drake Ramoray 1 minute, 42.1 seconds baby!

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    Y'know, I think that maybe we're all getting a little too comfortable with each other in this thread. :unsure:
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  29. evenflow

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    Been there, done that.
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  30. rightfulownership

    rightfulownership Fresh Meat

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    i think you might still be screwed