Do You "Share The Details"?

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  1. $corp

    $corp Dirty Old Chinaman

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    Just wondering, when you guys get really nasty with someone, or your significant other, do you have a friend you share these details with?

    Two of my close friends are chicks, and one of them used to share the details of her exploits with me. Usually it is good for a laugh, but I don't share the details of mine with her. Another friend is just really grossed out with hearing or thinking about her close friends doing the nasty, so she always tells me if I *must* tell her something, to use as little description as possible because she loses her lunch easily.

    Do you people have someone you talk to when you're proud of who, or what you've done? Do you think this should only be between the couple and they shouldn't share? Personally, I'd rather her not tell her friends everything we do - though a lot of times I wish I could tell someone. (Besides my doctor.)
  2. Tamar Garish

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    I'm that person everyone will tell everything to.

    On the other hand, I usually say very little.

    Believe me, I've heard and know a lot of things I wish I never knew. :lol:
  3. Dr. Drake Ramoray

    Dr. Drake Ramoray 1 minute, 42.1 seconds baby!

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    [YT="I just go for the important details..."]av64gOA9nXM[/YT]

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  4. The Exception

    The Exception The One Who Will Be Administrator Super Moderator

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    People tell me too much about everything. I sometimes wonder if I have a sign on my back that says "tell me your personal secrets."
  5. Clyde

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    So we're talking about some freaky funk right? Not a "Hey I just nailed ..." type of deal.

    Hmmm...

    Probably not, but even if I did I wouldn't name names. Gotta have a little class man, never known a lady who wanted somebody else sharing their sexual exploits.
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  6. Rimjob Bob

    Rimjob Bob Classy Fellow

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    In my circle of friends, we normally don't share such details.
  7. oldfella1962

    oldfella1962 the only real finish line

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    Nobody I know shares the details, unless it's something bizarrely strange or funny.
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  8. Lanzman

    Lanzman Vast, Cool and Unsympathetic Formerly Important

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    My Blue Room thread here is about as much detail as I share with anybody.

    Well, anybody I'm not having a relationship with.
  9. Rimjob Bob

    Rimjob Bob Classy Fellow

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    This.

    But in general, I find it unbecoming. Gossiping about intimacy details is what teenaged girls do. If you respect your lover, there's no reason to be talking about that very private thing behind his/her back.
  10. oldfella1962

    oldfella1962 the only real finish line

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    That said, anything occuring at an underground live sex show in Korea (where you are also a participant) is pretty much public domain IMO.
  11. Rimjob Bob

    Rimjob Bob Classy Fellow

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    I never dug that deep in Seoul. :marathon:
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    Paladin Overjoyed Man of Liberty

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  13. oldfella1962

    oldfella1962 the only real finish line

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    I think if a truly gifted singer from Korea ever breaks thru the "one hit wonder" model (unlike the Gangnam Style dude) he should call himself The Godfather Of Seoul.
  14. Lanzman

    Lanzman Vast, Cool and Unsympathetic Formerly Important

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    Ummm . . . Psy already has a second hit in the US.
  15. oldfella1962

    oldfella1962 the only real finish line

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    You need local contacts and connections to get into the real nitty-gritty of Seoul.
  16. frontline

    frontline Hedonistic Glutton Staff Member Moderator

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    Yeah I have a best friend I can share everything with. I just chose what I do share with him
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  17. Prufrock

    Prufrock Disturbing the Universe

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    People tell me all kinds of secrets whether I want to hear them or not, but rarely are they sexual in nature. I just assumed nobody I know has sex. :shrug:
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    I will say that it's a pretty rare woman who doesn't have one, if not a few, women friends they will share every single gory, in-depth detail with.

    I shudder about the intimate details I have heard about men I don't even know...and it's worse when I know them.
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  19. Bickendan

    Bickendan Custom Title Administrator Faceless Mook Writer

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    "Don't kiss and tell."
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  20. Rimjob Bob

    Rimjob Bob Classy Fellow

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    I've heard and read all about the singing rooms, "barber shops," "anma" hotels et al. But a live sex show? I never even heard of any strip clubs. I think that sort of thing has been largely eradicated since you were there.
  21. Volpone

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    If I fucked a black and/or Asian girl in the ass, I'd tell every one of you. I just might take out an ad in the local paper.
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  22. Rimjob Bob

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    I'm sure $5 in Cambodia would take care of that for ya.
  23. oldfella1962

    oldfella1962 the only real finish line

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    You need organized crime connections. It's not Amsterdam - nothing is out in the open. These days the Russians are in competition with the local Koreans for the sex trade. You really have to get away from the enclaves where soldiers gather for people to "let their hair down" as it were. Just sayin'.
  24. Dr. Krieg

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    Absolutely not.
  25. Aenea

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    Not sense out our best friends got divorced. :cry:
  26. Diacanu

    Diacanu Comicmike. Writer

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    So, there you go, there's two myths down.

    Women are grosser in public restrooms, and they're verbally filthier than sailors amongst themselves.

    Oh, also their porn is as horrifying.

    So, that's three.
  27. Diacanu

    Diacanu Comicmike. Writer

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    Oh, and having seen footage of female cadavers being cut up, there is no "sugar and spice, and everything nice", inside.

    There's four.

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  28. Prufrock

    Prufrock Disturbing the Universe

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    What? :wtf:

    Or is this something I'm better off not knowing?
  29. Bickendan

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    I'd say we need links to verify (NSFW, natch)... but then this is Diacanu, who watches Human Centipede for shits and giggles, we're talking about. :shep::no:
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  30. Diacanu

    Diacanu Comicmike. Writer

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    One name.
    V.C. Andrews.

    I shall say no more.
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