I'm becoming a lesbian

Discussion in 'The Red Room' started by vandygoddess, Jun 22, 2007.

  1. vandygoddess

    vandygoddess Yankee Forever

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    That's it. Lesbian here I come. Anyone know of any classes? Cause I'm done with men.
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  2. Amaris

    Amaris Guest

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    I don't do classes, but I do have photography shoots.

    -J.
  3. Tamar Garish

    Tamar Garish Wanna Snuggle? Deceased Member

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    Uh-oh.

    Prince Charming wasn't so great after all? :(
  4. Clyde

    Clyde Orange

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    What happened?
  5. JUSTLEE

    JUSTLEE The Ancient Starfighter

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    The usual.
  6. vandygoddess

    vandygoddess Yankee Forever

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    Yeah, the usual " Blah, blah, can't make it, excuse, blah, blah, blah"
    Whatever, happens all the time.

    ( Go ahead and flame me, I really don't give a fuck.)
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  7. CaptainChewbacca

    CaptainChewbacca Lord of Rodly Might

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    Vandy's a lesbian?

    I'll be in my bunk.
  8. Zenow

    Zenow Treehugger

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    That's not telling us anything. He cancelled a date? Stood you up? And who is he? One of the cute men you only met 6 days ago - and wanted to take it SLOW with?
  9. Starguard

    Starguard Fresh Meat

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    You should have invited him over, then answered the door naked :blush:
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  10. vandygoddess

    vandygoddess Yankee Forever

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    Do the details matter? It's the same story. Vandy meets man. Man seems alright. Man asks Vandy out. Man does something stupid, kind of mean. Vandy is pissed. I haven't been in love in a long time. Since.. oh, someone we all know.


    Reminds me of a song lyric:

    Brownstone- " 5 miles to empty...my heart is running is low... I need a good man to fill me up."

    You know I could lie and act like I don't want a man, that I am totally fulfilled, but that's not true, and I don't think it's realistic. We were designed to have relationships. We were designed to couple off and have families, and I'm not going to lie and say I'm satisfied with TV movies, and nights out, and freedom. I'm not. That's not what I want.
    I have quite the glamorous life here in Nashville. I know all the cool people, I'm in the gossip columns, I'm in the " Out and About" pictures, I can get in anywhere, I know country music stars, club promoters, restaurant moguls, club kids but it's...meaningless without someone to share it. All my friends are partnered off, and I'm still in the wilderness.
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  11. Dan Leach

    Dan Leach Climbing Staff Member Moderator

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    Maybe thats the problem.
    You're hanging about with whoppers, drop them and find some real people :shrug:
  12. Amaris

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    It's a shame I live 400 miles away. :(
    And I'm not kidding! At the very least, I could be a good companion.


    -J.
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  13. vandygoddess

    vandygoddess Yankee Forever

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    I get your point... but please forgive me if I don't take dating advice from you.
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  14. Dan Leach

    Dan Leach Climbing Staff Member Moderator

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    Its not dating advice, its people advice. I mean, 'gossip columns'? ... cant be good
  15. BearTM

    BearTM Bustin' a move! Deceased Member

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    Oh, come on.. Ya know what they say...

    Those who can, do.

    Those who can't, teach.

    :soholy:
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  16. Dr. Drake Ramoray

    Dr. Drake Ramoray 1 minute, 42.1 seconds baby!

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    I gotta say, Dan makes a valid point here (grimaces in pain), you might want to consider looking outside of your usual set of aquaintences.
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  17. Shakes

    Shakes With good reason

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    welcome to the dark side :diablo:
  18. Dr. Drake Ramoray

    Dr. Drake Ramoray 1 minute, 42.1 seconds baby!

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    :?:
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  19. Dan Leach

    Dan Leach Climbing Staff Member Moderator

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    The problem is, with the type of people she is mixing with (socialites, gossipers, self important gits) why would the women be any better than the men?
  20. Zombie

    Zombie dead and loving it

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    Plus shes obviously a high maintenace girl who can't handle anything not going her way.

    Guy is probably glad he's off the hook now.
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  21. Baba

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    Give us pics please also consider dating grace parks. :)
  22. Dan Leach

    Dan Leach Climbing Staff Member Moderator

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    Whoda thunk Baba would gravitate to this thread like a smackhead needing a fix :P
  23. evenflow

    evenflow Lofty Administrator

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    What three things could you have done differently vandy?
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    Megatron Banned

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    Nothing.

    She is not intelligent enough.

    :hitlerdance:
  25. markb

    markb Dirty Bastard

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    This thread is pointless without pictures, IMHO!
  26. Forbin

    Forbin Do you feel fluffy, punk?

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    Well, a friend of mine turned lezzy at the age of 37, so it's not like it can't happen!
  27. Dan Leach

    Dan Leach Climbing Staff Member Moderator

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    A friend of my dads did in her mid-40's after having 3 kids...
  28. Starchaser

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    Lipstick or Diesel?
  29. Muad Dib

    Muad Dib Probably a Dual Deceased Member

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    teh baba loves you! :baba:
  30. Baba

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    Vandy would you date tricia helfer?