Ok I can dig that but did you have up any posters of any adult male movie stars or singers? Come on, no back street boys or N'synch posters? Then again you could be like my eldest, who until this year (14) is/was more worried about school and enjoying life than going koo-koo for cocoa puffs over boys. You two fall in the category of a fathers dream. Its been my experience that young girls like you are more of the exception than the rule. Ok fair enough question. I have two daughters (afore mentioned 14 year old and 9 year old). Plus I have been actively supporting and involved in both daughters girl scout troops (for a total of 15 years). So I've watched two sets of girls (about 8 each) grow from 5 year olds into their mid teens. It's been a very educational experience. It gives me a good base to operate from. Unfortunately out of the 18 some odd girls I've been around these years, two of them fall smack dab into that 'wooking pa nub in all da wong pwaces' category. It's gotten to a point where the adults wonder which one is gonna get pregnant before she is 18. Its sad. One comes from a fucked up set of parents, the other one...we just can't figure it out. So some times there is a clear causality of attention seeking and some times there isnt.
Now this, I would pay attention to. My daughter used to love Tom Welling. bUt not till she was getting close to 16 did she actually like boys. But my daughter is a good looking kid with a decent body, so I'm sure many boys liked her. I would say that to her and she would like..Huh? But now at 16 she has a boyfriend and I approve of him. My daughters mother knows his mother and they all spend time together. My kid and her boyfriend recently spent the whole saturday with me.
I just gave a couple of observations you fucked up negroidal moron. I have seen tens of other cases as well. Yeah, and you are the one that got divorced from your crazy fucked up wife. Did I marry her in the first place or did you? Does it hurt you that I have a great relationship with my parents? Yeah, my parents care a lot for me, but what good parent doesn't? Mommy's baboo. Is that the best you can come up with??
Its just that, you have only lived with your mother. No sister in the house so you lose there. No female of young age that you really saw in action. At least a guy with a sister can speak up or like some of us other, the parent of a teenage child. You would do better to read and learn before posting like you know something. in my book, you are not far from these little girls we speak of.
I find it disturbing that her parents were so careless and their neighbors so callous. King Solomon's not here, so I'll say a few words: Those people ought to be branded in the face with a hot iron and have all their possessions given to the girl's family.
i don't think this girl was necessarily boy crazy, but it did say that she had self-esteem issues. maybe she just liked the thought that a cute boy found her attractive/fun to talk to. after having a falling out with her best friend she probably ended relying on him too much.
Well, my parents, yes. But I have not been holed up all my life. I went outside. I had female friends my age. I have seen their problems or lack of problems, I have talked with them, heard their mothers talk about issues.. etc etc. Just because you have a couped up American mentality don't think you know everything about the world. People can gain a lot of experience in life by observing and listening, they dont have to literally 'experience' it first hand. I never thought it was a competition? How ignorant do you really have to be to say something so stupid?? Wow. You make complete fucktardian assumptions about MY life without knowing jackshit how I grew up and you are giving ME advice? Uh.. yeah. I have killed myself and now haunt the interwebs with my electro-soul powers!
Try going outside of your holed up cave and to get a worldwide perspective. In Non-American cultures, parents don't see children as a 'burden' and children don't see parents as a thorn on their side. Perhaps in YOUR limited experience, your parents see you as an 'accessory' for marriage. My parents never did so. I live in a mansion that the likes of you, Faceboi, could never even walk past before getting checked by security. My wing of the mansion is double the size of an average house in America, plus, why should I live all alone when I can have the company of my parents and not two-faced fucktard friends or 'roommates'. Keep laughing, Faceboi. It just shows your true retardation and illiteracy.
I can respect that. There is a co-worker of mine who is from Pakistan, and he still lives with his parents (we're about the same age). He has quite a bit of responsibility, but it is shared with the whole family (I believe there are 7 that live in one house). Shoot, I still live with my parents, although it's primarily because if I didn't they would be homeless and penniless. J.
I too live with my parents at the moment. But I also lived on my own in Indiana for several years and supported myself. I am back home because they need me to help out with the business, and I sure as hell am not paying $800 / month for a studio apartment when I can just have my own wing of the house. It does chafe, living with my parents, ESPECIALLY after being on my own for so long, but (fingers crossed) hopefully this time next year I'll be at Johns Hopkins or NYU.
I lived at home for a year after college between undergrad and law school. I had a job though locally.
I'm thinking that Tasvir was trying to say is that if there is a solid family homelife that these girls won't try to find love from teenage boys (usually through sex). There's a big difference in liking a boy and liking a boy and making him your whole world at a young age. I'm thankful I had a mom with a solid head on her shoulder in relationships. I was an honor student and everything and still got attached to people way too much. I can only imagine what things would be like if I *didn't* have that.
Ya know lately all I hear is excuses for this and that. Solid family homelife is hit or miss. People are sleepwalking through life waiting for someone to lead them. I did so much on my own in life. Yeah, I had both parents but they are not with me in school, they are not with me in the park, they are not with me when I'm just plain doing stuff. I tell my nephew that he shoulda got a bus schedule the other day cuz he needs to travel that bus again. He says.."I don't know where to get one!" All I could say was.."Well where the heck do you think bus schedules will be? D'UH!" Think on ya feet fer chrissakes. Kids learning from tv or music videos is bad enough but too many can't think past their nose. You gotta grow up way before 18 yrs of age. A little off track but I see todays youth as very simple minded. Some never learn to cook or clean. Many kids left to their own devices gain all knowledge and experience from other knuckleheads. Parents can only do but so much. This kid I got now, I gotta teach him EVERYTHING. Its a big thing just to tell him to put on the top lock when leaving the house. As far as I can tell he can't even answer a phone correctly. Parents actually babytheir kids way too much. tell em to friggin' figure it out when they come with dumb questions.
Speaking for myself, my family say they will always let me stay with them, as long as I'm working and have a goal like school in mind. And it's not like they have any money for me to leech off of (Not saying that you do). That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to support myself as soon as possible. Lots of reasons I want my own space, including privacy. my mom wouldn't be coll with me bringing home a guy to stay overnight that isn't my husband.
It's so funny that YOU understand what I am trying to say being that you are so young but 'mature' fuckers like Mewa doesn't understand crap.