I don't really see that as a loss. I'm pretty sure Israel never intended to stay there permanemtly once they kicked the PLO out.
One thing I'll mention: At OCS one of the male candidates managed to sneak into an empty squad bay and hook up with one of the female candidates. Now hats off to the two of them for managing that, because it was no small feat. But if you've got gays, suddenly you've got to worry about who's in the head together after dark and what they're up to.
Yep, and that shit is going to happen. The dorms were already always abuzz about who is fucking who while who has gone TDY and lots of fights and shit over that all the time. That shit is just going to get worse with this. In the civilian world, you work your 8 hours a day with someone, gay or straight, it doesn't matter, and then go home to your life. In the military, you end up with the same bunch 24/7 and everybody knows everybody's business. How you going to have any respect for Tech Sergeant X when you find out he's sucking Airman Basic Y's cock when airman Y's room mate walks in on them.
You've already got gays. How is How is it going to be any different just because they're lifting the "ban"?
I think (guessing here) that gays have much more practice in being discreet. Odds are you will never find out who is doing who because their whole life they have been cautious +discreet for the most part. Don't we have some gays on WF? Maybe they can shed some light.
Yet but now they have to be neither cautious nor discreet, they will be protected. Everybody will know who is fucking who. Its mostly the women who will know it. They live for that shit and you all know that is the truth.
You could try not allowing unchecked homophobia to dictate your perceptions. You could even look into not caring about anything that doesn't directly affect you and your duties. Give the practice a catchy name, like "Growing the fuck up and minding your own goddamned business". It's really easy to not give a pinch of shit about 99.99% of the people around you or what they do with their time, instead of constantly searching for inconsequential reasons to be offended and outraged. Believe me. You reach a point where they barely exist for you until the do something that physically requires you to react to it.
Here's my prediction.....they will still keep that shit quiet. Only now if the worst case scenarion happens + they are found out, they won't get booted out. 90 percent of the guys + gals I served with always keep mum on their sexual activities.....you never who is married/engaged or the woman has four different boyfriends + a husband or whatever. Only an idiot risks upsetting that apple cart...that adultery thing is a career-buster. :santa_grin:
Ah, but this is the 'states. Having your ignorant prejudices indulged is a time-honored, cherished "right" here.
So .... you have no respect for women, then? Do you think so low of your wife or does she never suck your dick?
The same way you can respect it if Tech Sergeant X is female. Fucking the people you work and often live with is a damn stupid idea in the military, but that's no reason to prevent gays from serving any more than it is to prevent women.
Didn't you know? They will big-assed public orgies like that time on South Park - led by Stan's dad if I remember right. Every military installation will have a mini-Greenwich Village/Castro set up right in the center. :santa_shocked:
Please. The men on my ship are the absolute worst gossip hounds by far. Anytime a new female checks in and they see her sit down next to a guy in the fucking chow hall, the rumor mill starts flying. Hell, in the case of one of my friends that came onboard with me, she was just happen to get along with guys better than girls and stayed out up until the last few minutes of curfew because she hated being on the ship, and she got lectures about "being a lady" from almost every damn chief and officer in her work center. The crazy thing is...she's still a virgin!
WTF? That's about as likely as spotting Bigfoot - piloting a UFO. Ten men for every woman.....she won't hold out long. The closest I ever came to meeting a female virgin (male virgins are more common - if they couldn't get layed in HS/College with a 50/50 mix of male + female, are they likely to get laid with a 10/90 mix?) was a young woman who just got married (husband stationed somewhere else) and did not have a boyfriend or three on the side. Nobody expected a married female to stay faithful.....crunch the numbers - there are just too many temptations! Share the wealth says I...that pussy won't break! :santa_grin: The downside is getting killed by a jealous husband...but you want to make an omellete.......... :santa_rolleyes:
In fairness, she's bene here as long as I have --six months, most of which was spent at sea w/o lib ports--she's pretty shy (or thinks herself to be, at least), and told me that where she came from, she didn't get hit on much because she was too dark-sinned. Guys like her because she's not hung up and not the typical mad black woman, because she has enough self-respect not to fuck the first thing to give her attention, and she's a flirt without really having to try to be....something I've never` been good at. I like having conversations and getting to the point without bullshit filler.
Why worry about it other than anti-fraternization policies. Check out what Chris Rock has to say about em.
You're talking to the same guy who said that you shouldn't do things in the bedroom that you wouldn't be willing to do in front of your mom or grandmother. So, apparently EP's family reunions are something of a spectator sport.
That is the basic question. It is also a question that people like EP and even those who oppose the repeal of DADT are unable to answer. Mostly because it doesn't significantly change anything.
Since it is against the rules (I assume, else Volpone wouldn't have phrased it as a concern) they will continue to keep it quiet, no?
Presently it is hard to work the heterosexual hook-up at boot camp because in the Marines men and women are in separate platoons. And it is hard to work the gay hookup because with DADT unless gays have some kind of secret signal they pass to each other you can't find out who else is gay. If people can be openly gay, suddenly Mike and Mark know that they are both gay, so when Mike heads for the bathroom, Mark knows to follow him there. At this point the firewatch has to decide if they need to go to the bathroom to make sure nothing illicit is going on in there, which distracts them from their primary job, puts them in the position of walking in on gay buttsecks, and raises the issue of if he is discriminating by persecuting Mike & Mark.