Is it a Human Right to get your balls waxed?

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  1. Awesome Possum

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    This has really gotten you worked up.
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  2. Ten Lubak

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  3. Awesome Possum

    Awesome Possum Liberal Queen of TNZ

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    Very likely, also doesn't disprove my point. I'm not saying there's any thing particularly wrong with not knowing, I'm simply saying not knowing is a blind spot when it comes to what highly visible trans people (which is to say, not people like me) have to deal with
    For which I'm grateful.
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  5. Nova

    Nova livin on the edge of the ledge Writer

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    Of course, the point seems to also gone over your head.
    Which was precisely my point.
    That you/he don't know. The single MOST common thing we (trans people) encounter, online or off, are people who know fuck-all about ANYTHING in our lives and experiences but happily express confident opinions, usually based on the voiced or written opinions of someone else who knows fuck-all, or worse, someone actively hostile to our public existence.

    Which is what I literally said: that not even knowing what a TERF was shows a (perfectly understandable) level of ignorance which prevents he/you from realizing that the person in the article we were referring to is full of shit.

    And there was nothing condescending about my answer to the question.
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  6. Nova

    Nova livin on the edge of the ledge Writer

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    the answer wasn't militant (except towards Yaniv and TERFs)

    Again, the replies indicate none of y'all read thoughtfully enough to get the point - because you repeated my point back to me as if you disagreed.

    Put it in context (and even here I am paraphrasing what I said above) - besides the internal dynamic of being trans, dealing with your own bodily dysphoria, you then layer on top of that how everyone around us interacts with us, of seldom being fully confident that the person you see before you actually takes you seriously as who you say you are, then you layer on top of THAT people who are nakedly hostile and don't even try to rationalize why (just yesterday a woman in my extended family walked by me in Walmart and said "Ugly! Ugly! Ugly!" She knows I know what she thinks, she could easily have just ignored me but she chose to be vocally hateful (oh, and insists she's a god-fearing Christian).

    Then you layer on top of THAT the supposedly reasonable, thoughtful, intellectual assholes who construct a mythological "rational" basis for hating us and stripping us of our equality, whether it's psudo-science like the TERFs employ or religious traditionalism (literally, the same Religious conservatives who want to delegitimize lesbians too fund and support lesbian TERFs who are naive, or hateful, enough to trust them because they all despise the same people - us) and they you layer on top of that 10 million idiots who now consider themselves experts because they read some baptist bullshit by Andrew T. Walker and go out and spew their version of that bullshit at every opportunity - including those who happen to have the privilege of writing supposedly respectable columns for national newspapers.

    If perhaps there's a bit of...stress...in my reaction to someone taking one of those articles seriously...well, like I said - consider the context.
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  7. Nova

    Nova livin on the edge of the ledge Writer

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    this is nothing like what I actually said.
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    He has to invent intentions to have a point. He was flailing and didn’t want to give up.
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  11. Tuttle

    Tuttle Listen kid, we're all in it together.

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    Heshethey must be very virtuous. You can tell by their posts they love all of personkind (except those with whom they disagree; like you, you oppressive 'he').
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    I think he can love Tom Cruise with all his heart. It’s his life, enjoy it and Tom Cruise.
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    spot261 I don't want the game to end

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    In fairness there's probably a fair bit of half left over anyway.

    Mr Cruise is only very small, most of us could probably stretch to two.
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    garamet "The whole world is watching."

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    Does anyone think that if @Dinner got his balls waxed for free he'd be a nicer person? :unsure:

    Yeah, probably not... :garamet:
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    I can tell you that twitter was probably hit with a number of troll reports that did not have any merit. It is a tactic the right loves to do when they see someone not breaking the rules to get them banned from social media. They make false reports and that can be good enough to get someone banned. Good of twitter to review their reporting system and allow the user to post again.

    Now if you could cry a little more that would be great.
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    We could see, I am licensed and have some duct tape.
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    spot261 I don't want the game to end

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    No idiot that's not what happened.

    Shepherd got into an argument with Yaniv and called him an "ugly fat man" and Twitter permanently banned her for misgendering Yaniv.

    Once it came to light his other, less than savory, activities they decided to lift the permanent ban on her. I guess Yaniv got too ugly and fat even for Twitter to defend.
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    Tererune Troll princess and Magical Girl

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    Thanks for crying louder. I did not know all I needed to do was ask.
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    oldfella1962 the only real finish line

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    Augusta is hardly a "little town" but regardless, yes white people do crazy bullshit but not nearly as often as I would like. But the fact is blacks shooting/killing blacks happens far more often than whites shooting/killing whites. That said whites occasionally do off-the-wall shit like some white guy (mental issues?) who spit on an Army truck while the soldier was fueling up at a gas station then gave some non-sensical rambling reason to the arresting cops.
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    I come from NY and augusta is a little fucking town. Even downtown Atlanta is small when you figure it is only a couple of miles.
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    https://quillette.com/2019/08/31/ya...-to-get-hundreds-of-women-thrown-off-twitter/

    So the plantiff Jonathan "Jessica" Yaniv is just a completely horrible human being, we are talking an absolute flaming pile of dog feces.

    -He is a pedophile who groomed, sexually assaulted, and had sex with girls as young as 13 and 14 using coercion all while he was a full grown adult.

    -He doxed another trans sexual male to female youtuber admiting his goal was to get people to go to this persons house and attack him.

    -He showed on youtube that he illegally owned multiple weapons which are illegal in Canada.

    -He has admitted he actually wanted the Asian women he wanted to wax him to touch his penis and testicles because he found it sexually exciting.

    -He has gotten three or four dozen people banned from twitter yet he himself has not been banned despit breaking the rules and running multiple sockpuppet accounts which are against the rules.

    - When he asked for his balls to be waxed he used the name Jonathan not his supposedly new name of Jessica and implied he wanted a rub and tug.

    -He is currently a suspect for vandalizing and terrorizing women in a women only rape crisis center.

    - He wanted to have a topless pool party for underaged girls where parents would not be allowed where he would "help them" remove used tampons and insert fresh ones. Remember he is already a known pedophile who attacks underaged girls.

    - He has shared pornography with girls as young as 13 including sending them unwanted videos of him masterbating and stroking his penis. Telling them he will kick them out of a band appreciation group if they tell anyone and make sure they never meet band members.

    It just goes on and on and on. Canada should be ashamed for having such stupid laws which can be so easily abused by such a horrible disingenuous piece of shit like this.
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    We all know that this is just an excuse to pretend this shit is an issue to demonize and disregard any trans discrimination by people like you. Under the guise of supposedly caring so much about the community you will make things harder and try to force every person to go through hoops to prove themselves trans while you use that proof to open them up to discrimination and other hazing.

    Go fuck yourself bigot, you are neither the judge of what is trans, nor should you ever be. We don't need your approval to be who we are, and you can go fuck yourself in your attempt to hide your prejudice under some bigoted fear and unfounded paranoia that there is a huge problem here. If this person wants to win their case they simply need to prove those people were denying service based upon prejudice and not lack of training. It does not matter if this person is or is not trans if they are openly discriminating based on cultural biases that should not be part of professional operations. If they were caught in the act of discrimination, I don't give a fuck if it was some sort of sting or if they really did deny service based on being trans.

    Professional hair removal people should be versed in the safety of hair removal for trans women because trans women are going to need the service a bit more than cis women overall, and you cannot expect not to work on what would be a big part of paying customers. If you want to discriminate because of religious and cultural habits then maybe you should stay in your country and not try to change other countries who respect human rights to endorse your bigotry. If you do not like the GLBT community you can go back to vietnam, china, japan, or any of the asian countries that endorse sexism and prejudice against GLBT community members. As for you @Dinner russia is over there, and they discriminate openly against the people you hate. Go to the motherland where you belong. America does not have to be prejudiced seeing as how you have many other countries that cater to your hate already.
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    For those who are actually interested in the facts and not bullshit blogs running on half truths and rumors, I will tell you that as a licensed professional who would be able to get a job or start a business in a place that gives brazillians legally you are trained in the proper application and safety of chemical and wax hair removal systems on men and women. It would actually be safer to do a brazillian on a pre-op male client due to the fact that you would only be working on normal epidermal skin and not near the more sensitive and easier injured tissues of the female anatomy. Even the areas of thinner skin on the penis and testicles would not be involved with brazillian hair removal as they are generally hairless. Every hair removal procedure on healthy skin legally should start with a small patch test where you apply the wax or alkalyne hair removal cream on a tiny area and observe for any irritation or allergic reaction.

    Also, you would want to be aware of thinner tissues and use cooler wax or natural sugaring or threading if the client cannot stand the heat of normal wax application on the skin of the area being waxed. Suggaring is at it sounds as the use of a prepared combination of water, lemon juice, and sugar to create a single use sticky substance that is used to remove hair very effectively. There are also cool wax systems that can be applied, and all wax should be sterile and replaced after each use to avoid any spread of disease. Human waxes and natural sticky gels are easily removed with water and gentle rubbing, and should not be applied and removed forcefully from the internal areas of the vagina.

    This means that any licensed hair removal place should be able to handle the removal of genital hair safely and professionally from any person, male or female. A person should never be professionally denied service due to gender as any professional has gone through training and licensing that allows them to proceed on either gender. I don't give a fuck what his or her name is. I won't do your brazillian because of your gender is a prejudicial and discriminatory action. The people who are at licensed commercial hair removal places have no business refusing people based on cultural or religious prejudices.

    Whoever this guy is is not relevant to putting prejudiced people out of fucking business as they have no purpose serving the public. Go back unde4r your rock @Dinner and go drown yourself in whatever booze of the morning you have. You are a liar and a bigot.
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    Nova livin on the edge of the ledge Writer

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    A. Yes, Yaniv is an awful toxic person.
    B Quillete is an awful toxic site and it's a sign of bad character to cite it in any discussion.
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    Fisherman's Worf I am the Seaman, I am the Walrus, Qu-Qu-Qapla'!

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    The answer to this thread is still yes, not sure why there are 145 posts here.
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    Tererune Troll princess and Magical Girl

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    I will go through this bullshit again because it irritates you, and you were hiding under a rock when I first did it.

    Is there some actual proof of this? Aside from something someone else was quoting from some of the people who are making up shit about him. It may be the case, but I have yet to see any charges or real allegations on any of this. The best I have seen is some questions about how to handle a girl asking for instructions on how to use female products in the ladies room if it comes up. The evidence people have used is screenshots of this conversation which has been grossely misinterpreted and demonized. I have been asking for some real evidence which no one has ever given me anything but those quotes. I have gone back down the chains of this looking for the origens and every time I come up with the same statement that has slowly been warped through interpretation into something it never was. So please do show me something new.

    Again, I have heard rumors of this, but I have never found out who or seen evidence of this. Given the people attacking this guy, and their tone I need to see some proof of this outside of it was mentioned. You are making the claim, and there is a mountain of bullshit so if you have the link, do post it or you are full of shit.
    Can you link to the video? Better yet why has this not been reported to the canadian authorities? If the information is true then he broke a law. I must say even though I agree with the law there are some people who feel that owning these weapons should not be a crime. I personally think it should be, so I am not arguing for it,
    Do you realize the pain involved in waxing? Sure, some people may be aroused by pain, and he may be one of them. However, lots of people find waxplay exciting for the sting of the hot wax. I am not sure the tearing out of the hair would be pleasurable as brazillians are painful enough to make people see stars and feint. I don't see anything wrong with it, but he would have to control himself in the chair or most places would have him removed.
    welcome to the internet. Needs better modding is not his fault. All sides use reporting as a weapon. I also thought he was banned on twitter.
    Do you have a recording of that? Where did this claim come from? Is it sworn testimony, or is it just something that people made up.
    Again, where is this proof?
    So hows your drinking problem? Oh wait, you claim you don't have a drinking problem and are not a racist. Yet if we look around here we can see that is an ongoing meme where the origination of that rumor is probably not what it has been made out to be. So why is it that when you are supposedly the victim of salacious and untrue internet rumors that are based in little or no actual fact do you figure the internet can be trusted on this guy? Now maybe you are a drunk posting bigot, and maybe this guy is as bad as they say. Perhaps you could do us the favor of posting something of proof. Because I have looked into this guy, and I have seen the screenshots and evidence. None of it adds up to what is being claimed.

    What I have found is he is on the bad side of trolls who like to make up shit about people and warp things they have said. I would love to see some evidence, but every time I find someone who supposedly is in "the know" about this dide they cannot point me to anything aside from some dumbfuck on the internet said this about him.

    So pics or it didn't happen mr @Dinner
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    This is a male to female trans person who has interviewed Yaniv and got doxed by Yaniv. She is right, this guy is a predator posing as a trans person.

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    Here is Yaniv on tape confessing to doxing a transperson because Yaniv wanted people to go to her house and harm her.