Jenee and Async discuss a joke

Discussion in 'The Red Room' started by Asyncritus, Dec 6, 2020.

  1. Asyncritus

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    Is it really so difficult to just say, "Sorry, I imagined something that obviously wasn't there?"
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  2. Jenee

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    Typical. Misogynist. Bullshit.

    Whatever. You were offensive. It wasn't my imagination. Dick.
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  3. garamet

    garamet "The whole world is watching."

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    Says the poster who whines about being "insulted" all the time.

    (A) You were more hypersensitive than usual.
    (B) You chose the wrong analogy. You don't counter what you perceive as sexism with a comparison to racism. If you really thought he was addressing all women (or maybe just you?), you could have countered with "That's like saying all men's balls hang around their knees when they get older."

    Everyone would have had a good laugh and moved on.
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  4. We Are Borg

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    @garamet @Jenee @Asyncritus please stop responding to the saggy tits bullshit.

    Either that, or start your own thread where you can bark at each other. Quit derailing the discussion in this thread.

    Jesus wept.
  5. Jenee

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    fuck you.
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    AND UNCLE ALBERT LIKES EM THAT WAY!

    :garamet:

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  8. Jenee

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    No. Fuck you.
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  12. Bailey

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    Who the fuck merged this? Without getting into the original posts, endorsement of a misogynist attack on a member is definitely not on.
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  13. garamet

    garamet "The whole world is watching."

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    What dazzles me is that at least three posters I could name have outright called her an idiot, several more have implied that her reasoning skills are not optimal, and she doesn't snap back at that, but a generic comment about "older women" (and based on her ever-so-lovely avatar, she's only middle-aged) sends her into :beartm:

    I can't count the number of names I've been called nor the number of posters who've called me them, but as @Asyncritus said somewhere in this forum, that says more about them than it does about me.

    Although whichever mod pulled this out of the other thread, I'd question whether it was fair to choose an upper-case thread title and make it seem as if Async started it. :brood:
  14. Bailey

    Bailey It's always Christmas Eve Super Moderator

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    Renamed this split off thread from this:
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  15. garamet

    garamet "The whole world is watching."

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    The original comment was not an attack on @Jenee in anyone's mind but @Jenee's. Thread could have used a better title, though.

    ETA: Just saw the revised thread title. Much better! :techman:
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    Calm your tits. :diacanu:

    I was in the middle of merging and re-naming when I got called away to do something at work.

    Thanks for editing it. :yes:
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  17. Jenee

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    Thank you.
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    I swear, you grow more senile every day.

    I did not take it as an attack. I said the "joke" was offensive. You fucking moron.
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  19. garamet

    garamet "The whole world is watching."

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    Says the poster who spends half her time in the RR lecturing others about insults.

    I've asked you before and you didn't answer: Offensive to whom?
  20. Raoul the Red Shirt

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    If only the original title and the "They're Real" thread were ever next to each other....

    That's funny and OK to say, right?
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  21. Ancalagon

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    Jokes about women aging aren’t the same as jokes about men aging.

    That’s because our current society treats the two differently. Men get distinguished as we age, women get decrepit.

    The gender pay gap in Hollywood is already huge but it is most stark for older actors. A female actor’s earnings peak at 34 a male’s 51. That is pretty damn huge and goes to show how little we value older women.

    https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2014/01/30/hollywood-women-pay-salary-men/5050433/

    So yeah, I’d stay away from poking fun at older womens appearance. You might not ‘see age’ (like some don’t see color) but society does, and punishes women for it. Lots of folks suffering abuse don’t find that abuse as humorous as those blissfully unaware do.
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  22. Ancalagon

    Ancalagon Scalawag Administrator Formerly Important

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    And in case you think it is just Hollywood, here’s a 2015 working paper from the National Bureau of Economic Research:

    Based on evidence from over 40,000 job applications, we find robust evidence of age discrimination in hiring against older women, especially those near retirement age. But we find that there is considerably less evidence of age discrimination against men after correcting for the potential biases this study addresses.

    https://www.nber.org/system/files/working_papers/w21669/w21669.pdf
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    This thread has grown tiresome. Would you like to touch my monkey?

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  25. garamet

    garamet "The whole world is watching."

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    And as long as you buy into what "current society" tells you, you're perpetuating it.
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    This was no fun when it was in that other thread and it's even less fun now that it has its own thread.

    Whole thing is kinda tasteless and classless.
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    you're no fun.
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  28. garamet

    garamet "The whole world is watching."

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    Aw, c'mon. You have to admit Anc's pronouncement that looks are everything is funny. Bet he can't wait to be old enough to be "distinguished." :diacanu:
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    Q: What did one saggy boob say to the other saggy boob?
    A: "We better get some support before someone thinks we're nuts!"
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  30. garamet

    garamet "The whole world is watching."

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    :lol: Now you've done it...